Saturday, January 12, 2013

365 Days of Happy - Day 12

So I used to have this other blog. It was called Optimism of the Enlightenment. Dreamy, huh? Anyway I deleted it a while ago to make room for my other blog, the one I wrote when I was studying abroad in Dublin, The Book of Kels. I kept all the posts from my Enlightenment blog, and here is one from that.

Well, it's actually from Elle magazine. Written by E. Jean.

20 Things Every Woman Should Know

1. That it's impossible to distill everything a woman should know into a list of 20 things. Also, every woman should know that it's impossible to get the 20 things in the right order. Where to I put, for instance, 'Life is short. Don't waste it trying to make everything perfect'?

2. How to change a tire, how to change your hair color without going to a salon, and how to change a man.

3. If you don't question what you believe in, you end up making the same mistakes over and over. When we find ourselves in romantic quagmire or struggling for an eternally denied promotion at work and our old ideas aren't working, we must, must, must ask ourselves two questions: (A) Is this idea I'm acting on even effing true? (e.g. Am I so irresistible that this time he is going to leave his wife?) and (B) What would happen if everyone in the world believed this idea and behaved as I am behaving now?

4. To get rid of bags under your eyes, prop up your bed frame on a stack of books to lift your head a foot higher than your heels while you sleep. The next morning, you'll look as tight as Russell Brand's skinny jeans.

5. Are you reading these 20 things standing up? I've seen the research, and you better believe I'm bloody writing these standing up! According to the American Cancer Society, if women sit more than six hours a day, we're increasing our chances of dying by 37 percent despite whether or not we work out, compared with women who sit less than three hours a day. When we stand, we burn more calories, engage more muscle, and can whittle the circumference from a fat hippopotamus' to the size of a greyhound's. Barry Braun, PhD, associate professor of kinesiology at UMass Amherst, told The New York Times that if you want to drop pounds, you don't necessarily have to run a marathon every morning, 'just get rid of your chair.' A quick fix: Buy a large U-Haul box for $3, put it on your desk, and place your phone, papers and computer on top of it. Viola! You're standing at your desk!

6. Don't read blogs written by unhappy, spiteful people. Bad blogs will mangle your mood. Instead, spend an hour a day with your Moleskine notebook, connecting deeply with your own spiteful thoughts. At least they'll be original. And P.S. Anyone can make history. Only a great woman can tweet about it.

7. If you desire for a promotion, ask for it. But first, I hope to God you never leave your office before the boss, are always the woman with the clever ideas at meetings, don't hide your ego, don't play humble (unless you screw up, and then you are very, very humble), and on casual Fridays, never dress like you are heading out to do laundry after a couple of bong hits. Now, here's your secret weapon: You'll soon be handing the boss a list of the 10 outstanding things you've done for the company. Make certain you print that list on heavy parchment paper. MIT, Harvard, and Yale psychologists have found that heavy, more tactile objects make job candidates seem more important. So whatever you're proposing will be taken more seriously on thick paper.

8. Go and play with your dog. Your dog is the one creature on earth you can make insanely happy by playing 'hide the cookie' in the living room.

9. Don't expect a man to give you multiple orgasms. Indeed, you'll live a more fulfilling life if you don't expect a man to give you multiple anything.

10. Here's how to nail the job interview: Pretend that the person interviewing you is the one applying for the position and that you're interviewing him or her for the job. If you do that, you can't help but be genuinely interested in what he or she is saying, ask interesting questions, and speak honestly - and glowingly - about the company, as if it's the grandest place to work in the whole world.

11. When you're in college, don't worry too much about grades. Other than getting into a decent grad school and associating with the cream of your generation, getting straight A's means diddly squat in the real world, where it's all about hustle, determination, focus, dressing right, sucking up and who you know.

12. Women say they want a 'nice guy', but show them an asshole who treats them like dirt and they'll trample over their own therapists to get to him.

13. Wait. You're telling me you didn't see that poor homeless woman on the street? Come on. You didn't notice? Really? If you're anxious about 'hobos' asking you for money, decide how much you can allot per person, carry the cash in your pocket, and give it to every poor person whose hand is out. You'll experience a rare, nearly forgotten emotion - compassion.

14. If you're tired of waiting for the dude to pop the question, start introducing him as your fiance.

15. If you want to be told you look gorgeous, tell people they look stunning. We're all the prettiest girl in the room, depending on the day, the hour, and the room.

16. If you suffer the heinous habit of constantly saying 'I'm sorry' (a real career killer, right up there with downing a flask of vodka before important meetings), take your pathetic 'I'm sorry' and start adding three words: 'I'm sorry... I'm so brilliant.' 'I'm sorry... I'm so stunning.' 'I'm sorry... I'm so miraculous.'

17. The three tragedies of life: (A) not getting what you want, (B) getting it, (C) seeing your best friend get it. Don't you know you were born to feel competitive with your friends? Jealous is a little whip given to you by Mother Nature to push you to excel above your own expectations. Rivalry brings glory to the human race.

18. When you discover your husband's cheating, hire an attorney before you Krazy Glue his $60 Hanro boxers to his backside. A lawyer will help you figure out what you want, and when you know what you want, you'll be able to act with discipline and courage. Then, over cocktails, tell your spouse that you know he's having an affair. Don't be treacly. Don't cry. Don't squish Kleenex into your face. Be prepared to hold your ground. If you stay strong, drop the helpless-wife act, and tell him exactly what you want. You'll have taken the first step on a trek that could lead to an advantageous divorce... or a thrillingly nontraditional marriage.

19. You're spinning on a merry-go-round at no cost. It's whirling around a star that has hitched a ride on a galaxy moving so fast in the universe you can't even feel it. Whatever went wrong yesterday? You've already moved on.

20. If all else fails, live by these three rules: (1) Never trust a woman who shags married men. (2) Never make a deal with a guy who wears a white belt. (3) Never try to be 'friends' when the affair is over. Not even the great Gatsby could make Daisy stay. After she slobbered over his shirts, it was pretty much finished.

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